
BARE,
Flavia (Brown) Bare
Members
of the campus community are mourning the death of Alumni President Flavia Bare,
an outspoken supporter and genuine friend to the University of Science and Arts
of Oklahoma. She died Nov. 20, 2003
in Oklahoma City after a brief illness.
Bare
was a longtime member of the USAO community, and was serving her second year as
president of the USAO Alumni Association. She was inducted to the USAO Alumni
Hall of Fame in 2001.
"Few
individuals in my experience have invested themselves in advancing the
university as thoughtfully or compassionately as Flavia Bare," said USAO
President John Feaver. "Flavia
loved her alma mater, and she stirred others to do the same.
Her family has touched four generations on this campus: from her mother,
who attended in the 1920's … to Flavia, who graduated in 1949 … to her
grandson James, who graduated just last year while he served as president of the
Student Association. Flavia was a leader in building and dedicating the 49er
Chapel Bridge last fall. Her
enthusiasm was contagious. She will
not soon be forgotten."
Memorial
Services are scheduled at 10 a.m. Nov. 24 at Quail Springs Baptist Church,
located on May Avenue north of Memorial Road in Oklahoma City. In lieu of
flowers, the family asks that gifts be made in her honor to the University of
Science and Arts of Oklahoma Foundation or Alumni Association or to the Quail
Springs Baptist Church.
Bare
was born Oct. 30, 1927. Through her 76 years on this Earth, Flavia lived a life
of faith in Jesus Christ, love, and service. She was born in Shreveport,
Louisiana, to William Spence and Flavia (Tigner) Brown.
She
came to Oklahoma in 1946 to attend the Oklahoma College for Women. While
attending OCW, where she graduated in 1949 with a degree in French, she met her
husband and the love of her life, James Doyle Bare. They married in January
1949, and made Oklahoma their home.
The
Bares welcomed two sons, James D. Bare Jr. and William Robert Bare.
They raised the boys together in a house full of love, and when they were
old enough, she returned to the work force, becoming a dedicated fundraiser and
executive for the Oklahoma Arthritis Foundation, the Oklahoma Chapter of the
National Multiple Sclerosis Society, and finally, the Oklahoma division of the
American Cancer Society.
Flavia
served in many capacities for the ACS, including Executive Director, Crusade
Director, Deputy Executive Vice President, and as the first female Executive
Vice President in the nation. She contributed her time, energy, and creativity
to such programs as the Great American Smoke Out, the first “Donate Your Car
to the American Cancer Society” program, the first youth summer camp for
children with cancer in Oklahoma, and countless others. Her efforts saved lives
and brought great joy and comfort to others. Throughout her busy working career,
she still made time for Eastern Star, becoming a Worthy Matron in the
organization and a mentor for many of its participants.
After
her retirement, Flavia continued to touch the lives of the people around her, as
a doting wife, mother, and grandmother, serving as a Sunday school teacher, and
becoming President of the University of Science and Arts of Oklahoma Alumni
Association. She had the rare ability to be both a role model and a friend to
all of those around her, and her influence will live on through the hundreds of
people whose lives she changed.
She
is survived by her husband, James D. Bare, of the home, her son James D. Bare
Jr. and his wife, Linda, of Houston Texas, and their children, Jennifer Temple,
James, and Brenda, her son William Robert Bare and his wife, Rita, of Oklahoma
City, and their daughters Elizabeth, Meredith, and Suzanne.
A
viewing is scheduled at Hahn-Cook Street and Draper Funeral Home on Sunday, Nov.
23, from 3 to 5 pm.